can somebody please help me?

why is it that i can't just pick something up? why do i have to have numerous goes at it, including yeling and huffing and grring?
to post picture i used to use ws_ftp and i could work that. click the picture, click the arrow. good, all done. i spentthe morning downloading picasa and hello and somehow they're sposed to work together so i can post pictures in blogger, except all it says is 'please wait, loading'. i left it like that while i did a load of laundry and when i came back it was still loading.

is there anyone out there who can suggest something?